I might even insert who in place of what, for if you are like me, then you have close women who help you hold the line. Accountability is not always easy, regardless of which end you are on.
Accountability does not come alone. It brings along with it authority, responsibility, and maturity, not always in that order, but important nonetheless. To be held accountable by those that care for you is an act of love. It means that they are willing to put themselves into the line of fire to speak truth, which means that it often comes at a cost. What is important to note is that those that speak truth are not speaking it out of judgement. When love is their primary focus then it will be with a heart that is right.
Proverbs 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.