Women seek out those that they know will speak life, speak truth, and speak wisdom, when it is what they want to hear. If they want to have someone agree with a decision that is not good, then hopefully they are not seeking out you or I. We want to be women who attract those that want to understand that there truly does exist a path that leads to life and one that leads to death.
For some it may be a path that leads to a literal death, as in the termination of an unborn child. These women need our love and compassion. To have gotten to this place of consideration, or action, they have believed a lie. Our stand must always be one of love, and when we extend this love of God, it will accomplish much more than any other emotion that we might display. When we leave them whole we are giving them the necessary ammunition that they need to personally fight the lie!
1 Corinthians 13:1-3 NKJV Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.